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December 21 特别的朋友
卖场一遇今天天气特别晴朗;
仿佛回到了初秋的感觉一样; 但是就是起不来; 好象一直想睡下去,静静享受下一天的快乐; 或许真的自己太累了吧! 风儿,还在不停的吹着; 我依旧望着窗外,不知道自己该走向那里; 前天,当我看到日本幕府大将军德川家康列传时; 我沉默了...... 我原来的理想和现在所做的一切都背道而驰...... 我忘记了自己的初衷..... 下午,被我的兄弟叫去陪他买东西; 说实话,我从来都不喜欢陪男生去买东西; 我一直想着,有天我能陪她一块去; 不对,不对,我又在想乐菲菲......哈哈........ 最终我还是去了,他是我最好的哥们 一路上挤着公交,好几次这样情况,都在我脑海里浮现了; 我们到那之后,他开始四处转悠; 我呢就在盯美女......嘿嘿.... 不大一会工夫我们就找到了要买的东西; 然后就你 一句我一句她一句聊开了; 大家谈的都很投机; 打包完东西走出卖场的那一刻; 他和她冷不丁说了一句"没看出来你还挺健谈的" 我笑了笑....... 在回来的路上,我不停回头看自己身后的那个影子; 我对自己说就这样....... 忍耐和等待今天可以说是最平常不过的一天;
我没有以前的那种冲动,动不动就小旷一两节课; 不知道怎了,在这个时候,我依然心里很平静; 感觉一切都好象是新的一样; 有时感觉自己像个小孩,真天喊着吃不饱。。。。。 其实我才发现上帝对每个人都是公平的; 当我们期望过高的时候,就会产生抱怨。。。。 我还正在思索着的时候。。。。 我同学的短信过来了; 刚才还在神游的我,一下子就被她拽了回来; “那边人快要走光了,我心里很压抑,我想回家。。。。。。” 看到这里我没有直接回答她; 只是愣了一阵子。。。。 然后就拨通了她的电话; 以前她都是很开朗,爱说爱笑; 可以说是我所有同学中最逗的一个; 一开始的时候她很低沉; 为了打破这种低沉,我开始逗她了; “喂,不要这样吗!所有人都走光了,你不就成了车间主任,没事就往高处看,上面的那个家伙迟早都会阵亡。。。” 我讲完后捏了一把汗,但愿我能开导她想开; 她最后听完扑哧的一声笑了; 我也算松了一口气; 其实每一个新的环境,每一个新的人,都无限的机遇,只是我们不愿去忍耐和等待吧了; 即便那个机遇是一个遥远的梦想,我们也没有必要为之叹息; 因为我们真正的行动过。。。。。。 一个头花的故事在某小镇上有一个非常穷困的女孩子,她失去了父亲,跟妈妈相依为命,靠做手工维持生活。她非常自卑,因为从来没穿戴过漂亮的衣服和首饰。在这样极为贫寒的生活中,她长到了十八岁。
在她十八岁那年的圣诞节,妈妈破天荒给了她二十美元,让她用这个钱给自己买一份圣诞礼物。 她大喜过望,但是还没有勇气从大路上大大方方地走过。她捏着这点钱,绕开人群,贴着墙角朝商店走。 一路上她看见所有人的生活都比自己好,心中不无遗憾地想,我是这个小镇上最抬不起头来、最寒碜的女孩子。看到自己特别心仪的小伙子,她又酸溜溜地想,今天晚上盛大的舞会上,不知道谁会成为他的舞伴呢? 她就这样一路嘀嘀咕咕躲着人群来到了商店。一进门,她感觉自己的眼睛都被刺痛了,她看到柜台上摆着一批特别漂亮的缎子做的头花、发饰。 正当她站在那里发呆的时候,售货员对她说,小姑娘,你的亚麻色的头发真漂亮!如果配上一朵淡绿色的头花,肯定美极了。她看到价签上写着十六美元,就说我买不起,还是不试了。但这个时候售货员已经把头花戴在了她的头上。 售货员拿起镜子让她看看自己。当这个姑娘看到镜子里的自己时,突然惊呆了,她从来没看到过自己这个样子,她觉得这一朵头花使她变得像天使一样容光焕发! 她不再迟疑,掏出钱来买下了这朵头花。她的内心无比陶醉、无比激动,接过售货员找的四美元后,转身就往外跑,结果在一个刚刚进门的老绅士身上撞了一下。她仿佛听到那个老人叫她,但已经顾不上这些,就一路飘飘忽忽地往前跑。 她不知不觉就跑到了小镇最中间的大路上,她看到所有人投给她的都是惊讶的目光,她听到人们在议论说,没想到这个镇子上还有如此漂亮的女孩子,她是谁家的孩子呢?她又一次遇到了自己暗暗喜欢的那个男孩,那个男孩竟然叫住她说:不知今天晚上我能不能荣幸地请你做我圣诞舞会的舞伴? 这个女孩子简直心花怒放!她想我索性就奢侈一回,用剩下的这四块钱回去再给自己买点东西吧。于是她又一路飘飘然地回到了小店。 刚一进门,那个老绅士就微笑着对她说,孩子,我就知道你会回来的,你刚才撞到我的时候,这个头花也掉下来了,我一直在等着你来取。 这个故事结束了。真的是一朵头花弥补了这个女孩生命中的缺憾吗?其实,弥补缺憾的是她自信心的回归。 而一个人的自信心来自哪里?它来自内心的淡定与坦然。 孔子说,“仁者不忧,智者不惑,勇者不惧”(《论语·宪问》),内心的强大可以化解生命中很多很多遗憾。 要做到内心强大,一个前提是要看轻身外之物的得与失。太在乎得失的人,被孔子斥为“鄙夫”。 鄙夫,意义几乎等同于小人,就是不上台面的鄙陋的人。 孔子曾经说过,像这样的小人你能让他去谋国家大事吗?不能。这样的人在没有得到利益时抱怨不能得到,得到了以后又害怕会失去。既然害怕失去,那就会不择手段维护既得利益。 这种患得患失的人,不会有开阔的心胸,不会有坦然的心境,也不会有真正的勇敢。 Special day
First the story of a flower
Angel Heart
Work is a helpless
Special friendThe day before yesterday, I also enjoy the boredom out of a person; Alone a person walking down the street; Think back to their own side has taken all these years; Some clever, some innocent, some loyal ......; But they do is so persistent; Remember that war preparations in the winter Daijiadoumang college entrance examination; A guy has to think about climbing; Then take a large group collectively; In fact, I like them; At that time, 20 or 30 in order to return to the letter, I often wrote at an 2:00; On several occasions they have been robbed candles and paper, pen; I just smile, or in writing. . . . The next day, still go to school; Leave the day, we have cried together. . . . I patted them on the shoulder. . Friends treasure. . . Over the years, although we did not together; But whenever I could not stand up about the time; I will think of them. . . . Sincerely wish them everything can be readily; Lake is your eyes Sky star dream Mood is a legend To the same waiting time immemorial Growth is one leaves the door Dear childhood there is a group of people Spring is a certain distance Passage of the owner I love those people Wind from those evanescent Those who never oath Yibianyibian I love those people Precipitation of those tears Those who never oath Yibianyibian We have had a naive and sad faces We looked at the distant sunlight hand Gently every day year after year Whether we will grow up between the desire to sing again Whether we will grow up between the desire to sing again Covered the imaginationsToday do not know how the world from the rain fog; Special attention is as if I ........ Last night with this <Li Ao Italy broken Strange recorded>, the Huluntianzao read it again; Perhaps what we should master the same as Li Ao; See through secular and understanding of life ... But what really can do to have several? Rain still kept under a ...... Really had the snow season; But we can not see; That can only be a desire to always wish ..... God will be kind to everyone. The same as winter snow. This winter may never see snow. Then the coming year, such as bar, these guys have always said to me; I just smile ........ Marketplace an eventSpecial sunny weather today; Seem to feel like the early autumn; But is Qibulai; Seems to have been Xiangshui go quietly enjoy the next day happiness; Perhaps its really too tired! Fenger, also kept blowing; I still looked at the window, and do not know where the trend; The day before yesterday, when I saw the General Ieyasu Tokugawa shogunate Japan Biographies; I silence ...... My original vision and are doing everything contrary ...... I forgot my own mind ..... Afternoon, I was called Qupei his brothers to buy things; To tell the truth, I never buy things like paternity boys; I have always thought, one day I was able to accompany her one; Wrong, wrong, I Youzaixiang Yue Fei You ........ ...... I went to the final, he was my best buddies Along the way Jizhao bus, several such cases have surfaced in my mind; We go after, he began four bronze; I gaze at it in the beauty ...... Hei hei .... A little effort we will be found to buy things; Then you an I an a chat she opened; Everyone said the very speculative; End Marketplace packing things out of the moment; He and her Lengbuding said a "not seen you Haiting talkative" I laughed ....... Back in the road, I kept looking back behind their own shadow that; I said to myself it is so ....... Patience and waitIt can be said that today is the most unusual day; I do not have the kind of impulse before, at every turn on small Kuang 12 students; Do not know how, at this time, I remain very calm mind; Like everyone to feel the same as new; Sometimes feel like a child, shouting really do not have enough days. . . . . In fact, I found that God is fair to everyone; When we expect too much of the time, we will have complaints. . . . I am also thinking of the time. . . . SMS from my classmates; I have also Shenyou, all of a sudden she was dragged back; "The other person is going sneaked away, I was very depressed and I want to go home 。。。。。。" Here, I see she has not directly answered; Only Leng for quite a while. . . . She then dial the telephone; Before she is very cheerful, loving Shuiai laugh; All I can say is the most students stay in one; At the start of her very low; In order to break this deep, I began to amuse her; "Hey, not so! All sneaked away and you do not have become the chief of the workshop, nothing on Wanggaochu, above that guy sooner or later will be killed..." I was worried after the finish Khan, I hope I can enlighten her to open; Finally, she listened to the sound of laughter Pichi; I also count heaved a sigh of relief; In fact, each new environment, each new person, the opportunities are limitless, but we do not want to be patient and wait for it; Even if that opportunity is a distant dream, we need not lament it; Because we have the real action. . . . . . Snowman storyAn early winter snow. Will be re-decorate the entire world again; Screen the autumn turning yellow, miserable in the snow mapping, it is particularly the dazzling; Wind kept blowing, the snow under a continuously; As if all this was not in their own world, and curb. . . . It was during this time a snowman came to this world; It met with another snowman; They are all there for each other in this world are happy; Common for them to struggle for the future; It was at that time, a child came to their side; Duiqi a snow; "Let him Laipei you two" disappeared in the snow on the finish; They saw each other a mutual, laughed; This time Day after day passed; Xueting day, the sun is out; They all, with tears in his eyes, the snow disappeared persons; Chung early resumption of the earth's warmth. . . . . |
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